Tag: Advice

  • Six Things That Instantly Make You Stylish

    The question of the day, what makes someone stylish? It’s a question that sparks endless debate in fashion circles and among everyday observers alike. Is it money, access to designer brands, or simply good taste? In truth, style has little to do with how much you spend or how closely you follow the runway. The people who turn heads on the street or stick in your mind after you meet them usually have one thing in common: a distinct point of view.

    Style isn’t about fitting into trends—it’s about cultivating a signature that feels lived-in, personal, and deeply intentional. It’s the difference between wearing clothes and owning them. And often, it comes down to small details rather than sweeping overhauls. Here are six things that, in an instant, can elevate someone’s look and make them appear effortlessly stylish.

    1. The Power of a Statement Piece

    Few things are more chic than outfit repetition—especially when it revolves around a single, bold item. Think of icons like Iris Apfel with her oversized glasses or even Carrie Bradshaw with her tutu. These aren’t passing trends; they’re fashion signatures. In a culture obsessed with constant novelty, the mantra “I don’t outfit repeat” has always rung hollow. Why wouldn’t you want to wear something you love over and over again? In fact, repetition is where true style emerges. To me, not repeating an outfit or only wearing an item once just tells people that you don’t like your own clothes all that much.

    Wearing a standout piece so often that it becomes associated with you—be it a fluffy bucket hat (like @amandaxquach on Instagram) , an embroidered jacket, or a pair of dramatic earrings—signals not only confidence but commitment. It tells the world: This is me. This is my style. That kind of consistency, far from being boring or cringy, creates a lasting impression in an instant.

    2. Jewellery That Tells Stories

    If clothes are practical, jewellery is purely emotional. It serves no functional purpose other than to decorate, and that’s what makes it powerful. The rings, chains, and earrings someone chooses are more than shiny accessories—they’re a window into who they are. Curated jewellery stacks, in particular, speak volumes. Each piece takes time to collect, and together they form a visual narrative that feels almost autobiographical. And while fast-fashion jewellery has its momentary appeal, nothing compares to pieces that last—those bought thoughtfully, worn often, and imbued with meaning over time.

    There’s also an alchemy in mixing metals. The ability to blend gold and silver without hesitation is its own kind of style statement, one that suggests both nonchalance and mastery. Humans, after all, are a little like crows: we are drawn to the beautiful, the shiny, the collectible. Jewellery plays into this instinct, elevating outfits not just visually but emotionally.

    In person and online, a jewellery stack is always eye catching and leaves a lasting impression on the people around you, so save up the money you would have spent on those 20 Urban Outfitter’s necklaces that only lasted two months and get something high quality and long lasting that actually speaks to you, and those around you.

    3. Bags With Character

    A bag is more than just a container or a carrier; its a part of your outfit and an expression of your personality. And the most stylish bags aren’t pristine displays from a shop window—they’re lived-in, customised, and loved.

    There’s a special charm in a bag that has been curated over time. A keychain picked up on holiday, a ribbon salvaged from packaging, or a charm repurposed from a broken necklace—these small, seemingly insignificant details accumulate into something that feels utterly personal. It’s the difference between a bag that anyone could buy and a bag that only you could carry.

    The best bags look like they’ve been through life with their owner—scuffed slightly, spilling with possessions, adorned with the odd trinket. They tell a story before the wearer says a word. That sense of individuality is what makes them so stylish.

    Wear your bag, don’t let it wear you.

    4. Hairstyles That Accessorise Themselves

    Hair accessories—be it barrettes, scrunchies, or headbands—bring a playful, intentional touch that suggests effort without overstatement. They’re also endlessly versatile. A tortoiseshell clip can lean classic, while a bright silk scarf feels whimsical and free-spirited.

    What these details communicate is attentiveness. They show that style extends beyond clothes into the way you present yourself from head to toe. And when hair is treated as another canvas for expression, it takes an outfit from good to unforgettable.

    Once again, style doesn’t require endless amounts of money. @linmick on Instagram elevates her outfits just by adding ribbons, clips and intentional small braids into her hair and it always looks incredible. Doing a slick back? Why not try parting your hair differently like in a zig zag? It really is that simple, and people will notice.

    5. Layers, Layers And More Layers

    Layering is fashion’s secret weapon. It introduces dimension, texture, and character to even the simplest clothes. A collared shirt beneath a jumper. A scarf draped casually over a coat. A blazer thrown over a hoodie. Each layer adds complexity, making the outfit more intriguing to look at.

    The best part? Layering is democratic—it requires no new purchases, just creativity. It’s about looking at your wardrobe with fresh eyes, experimenting with combinations, and embracing the happy accidents that occur when pieces interact in unexpected ways.

    Layering also conveys a sense of ease. When done well, it doesn’t look laboured—it looks as though someone simply knows how to dress. And that quiet confidence is one of the hallmarks of true style.

    6. The wrong Shoe (that’s actually the right one)

    Finally, let’s talk shoes. Footwear is often the anchor of an outfit, but the most stylish people know how to subvert that expectation. Enter: the wrong shoe theory.

    Like a sporty trainer with tailored trousers or loafers with joggers. We are all walking contradictions that truly don’t make sense. Use it. A T-shirt and jeans with a pair of Adidas Sambas is a good outfit, there’s nothing wrong with it, but there’s also nothing special about it. When you change those Sambas out for a pair of Kitten heels, maybe with an open or pointed toe, all of a sudden the outfit is elevated and chic and much more interesting to look at. Or you can go the other way, a relatively elevated outfit with tailored trousers and a button up top, but with leopard print trainers. If you can make juxtaposition work and look good, you are stylish.

    The Bottom Line

    Instant style isn’t about buying into every micro-trend or owning the latest luxury item. It’s about how you use what you already have—how you repeat, accessorise, layer, and play with contradictions until your clothes start to feel like an extension of yourself.

    Style is about having your own unique personality and using visual language to communicate that to other people. Live your truth and don’t be afraid to wear something a bit out there because the people around you don’t dress the same way or because people might judge you. Let them. People are always going to judge you, but that doesn’t have to be a bad thing. The most stylish thing you can do is be comfortable in what you’re wearing and the way you’re presenting yourself.

    Because at the end of the day, style isn’t just about looking good. It’s about being memorable.

  • For the freshers

    (Dispatch from the Front Lines of the First Year)

    The beginning is loud. Not in volume — though, yes, there will be music pounding through thin flat walls — but in texture. A hundred overlapping invitations, WhatsApp groups, welcome emails, and the whispered terror of making a wrong move before you’ve even unpacked your toothbrush.

    The university experience is marketed as a sprint: race to make friends, race to join societies, race to “make the most of Freshers’ Week” before the clock runs out. But like most races, it’s worth asking whether you actually want the medal.

    But as one seasoned survivor advises:

    “Don’t force yourself! You don’t need to go to EVERY event to make the most of freshers! Go to the ones you feel up to.”

    You will be told — repeatedly, and with a sort of manic cheer — that these are “the best years of your life.” This is partially true, but also a pressure cooker. Your best years do not expire at twenty-one, and if you spend Week One quietly finding the library rather than headlining the club circuit, the ghosts of university past will not haunt you.

    Friendship, for example, is not a speed sport. You might not “mesh with your flatmates” immediately (or ever), and that is not a tragedy. One respondent offered the quiet comfort of perspective:

    “You will always be able to find other people who you can go out with and find best of friends. Everything will work out… you don’t have to join them to enjoy your uni life. If first year wasn’t your favourite, don’t just quit — you will probably find your place in second year.”

    The first weeks will be strange. You are away from home, possibly for the first time, trying to assemble a new identity from IKEA furniture and a kettle you’re not sure belongs to you. There will be wobbles. There will also be small, startling proofs of your own resilience:

    “Whilst it’s such a scary feeling being away from home for the first time, it is also such an experience that teaches you a lot about yourself, your own strength and resilience. So when it feels rough, just keep going and keep sticking it out.”

    Practical wisdom also emerges from the pragmatic:

    “Jump into absolutely every opportunity you get! Make the most of everything. Build a super good routine early… it really helps in the colder months to have a habit. Never be afraid to ask for help.”

    The moral, if there must be one: Freshers’ Week is not an exam. You are not being graded on volume of events attended, number of people in your phone, or intensity of your enthusiasm. The task is not to “win” university. It is to find your own way through it — slowly, if you must — and to make space for all the unsolved, unfinished, unpolished parts of yourself.

    Or, in the words of those who have already crossed the starting line: take it slowly, keep showing up, and don’t forget to breathe.

    For those who prefer their advice in the less cryptic and poetic format, here’s a list of advice from me, and others who have survived the freshers battle.

    • I would advise you join at least one society, you’re gonna have more free time than you realise.
    • Don’t worry too much about putting yourself out there, if you’re staying in halls, a bored flatmate is bound to come knocking on your door at some point during freshers
    • take every opportunity, you won’t regret it
    • don’t be afraid to have a quiet night in, you will get ill if you don’t let yourself rest

    And finally:

    “Be careful, the woman outside Dorothy’s is actually a bloke.”

    And she’s kinda mean.

    xoxo Sara